even as there are great debates on infidelity and multiplicity...i wonder whether its animal instinct or ust plainly man's(or woman's) folly to look for greener pastures...
two people(preferably of the opposite sexes) meet...feel a connection...start with friendship....fall in love and "commit" themselves to each other and go on to'commit ' the greatest mistake of gettin married...
first of all...this whole CONNECTION thingie is not only overrated but more often than not,MISUSED....after all it is all in the mind...people usually feel the connection with whomever they want to...maybe subconsiously(the subconsious is a gr8 device b the way...it can solve math problems for you even as you blissfully slumber...i'll get back to that sumday later)
so as i was sayin...this 'connection' excuse is just not happenin guys...we are all humans after all and are bound to have some interests in common.....ATTRACTION is a more appropriate word...
in any case..after a few year they realize that they cant stand the disgusting habits of their partners (which thay had found cho-cute in the initial stages of their relationship)
they quickly grow bored and feel more 'connected' to their secretaries/neighbour/colleague/old flame/friend's daughter/daughter's friend...etc...
they break up...
but wait a minute...what happened to thoe immortal feelings of passion that they nested for their exes,the promises ,the trifles of love??? all gone down the drain....
i usually believe that a normal person cannot stick with one partner...man was meant to have multiple partners...God wanted it so...
but at the same time..concepts like love fascinate me.....i am transported to a different world while watching those lovey-dovey movies(including the slight swelling of jol in the eyes)....but soon the reality dawns upon me...but i cannot help wishing it were all real ...just for lovesake...
hey...i aren't quite expressing myself right..but wat the heck...
jus pouring ma thoughts for later reference when even i get involved with a family,running between work,dropping my older kid to football practice and wakin up at the middle of the night to change the poo of my little sweety....
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